Professional/Loser

Personally, i do wish and cry out for a thorough stop in every pro and loser talks of people in games. But its realistically impossible. 1st of all, i would like to say that i am not writting this article against anyone i know. I am writting this to express my thoughts about the harm these things instill into the gaming world.

Indeed, these two words will sometimes make games much more enjoyable, you win, you call others losers, and name yourself a pro. (rating him/herself good in this sense, not really the real meaning of being professional) Human are unknowningly sadistic because sadistic and comedic is just a line apart. U knock someone head and laugh, but it may hurt.

In all games, the real motive is to interact and show that you are good, no one can deny that. But the majority are in for the latter. No, i don mean it comes naturally, some people play games - seriously to pass time and to enjoy only, not involved in the evil aspect - but its only when the innocent did not encounter any disturbing problems yet. A human is borned honest, devious acts come upon realistic view of society, it's just whether people want to do it or not. Game, compared to real world is not as serious in this sense, but it relate seemingly to the same problem.

A heart of pure innocence can be influrenced by a drop of mischievous act seeking for fun and become one him/herself. The bullied become a bully. That's the normal action to seek protection, "Xian Xia Shou Wei Qiang", showing some content of bully will make a bully hesitate, because everyone has a cautious thought.

So, whenever a comment is passed, everyone will take notice of it, reaction differs in everyone, but how will you be able to determine their reactions? It's true there are Mr Nice Guys in the world, but they too will sometimes feel victimised and want to get over to the other side and victimise others instead. It's all about the guage of tolerance.

A guy called loser may want to have some payback, and the problem with internet games are, are you able to easily seek out the person who called you a loser? indeed, if you win back someone who taunted you, you would feel great and get some revenge. There's a hunger for it. But what if you can't find the person who called you a loser? Calling others is an alternative to feel better? Then it goes on to be a chain action and reaction.

Please think twice before passing comment about others' ability because people really live off their ability, an insult in that area hurt badly and one of the way people usually do to get back confidence is to hurt others to feel the word "pro".

There are people who learn fast and people who learn slower, but the only reason is the way they learn, the pattern they see, the method they apply. Be glad you learn fast, be holy to encourage (not scold) others, be kind to avoid sins. Especially among friends.

*If you win, there's no need to brag, no need to say, because the people you won may have reactions about what you said, consider their thoughts instead of wholeheartedly seeking acknowledgement of pro, true pro need no advertisments*

*True meaning of pro means professional, a professional is a good loser and winner, be it win or lose, no words should be passed in the risk of others feeling bad or inferior*

*Scolding is harmful, again because people reactions are different, some will be alright, some, with extremely low confidence will completely lose it and feel inferior. But is that true? Or just that they need a master to lead them to the easier path, to see the pattern into learning*

*Bragging may let you feel over the moon for the moment. If payback day comes, the damage done is worse because to feel pro and being name a loser back is much more hurtful. A lost in ability. But can you see it as something you don't deserve? You hurt others, to get hurted is a balance up, no matter which is more severe*

*True supportive friends are harder to get than friends for laughter and fun*

Jokes are fun, but are all kinds of jokes a win-win situation? taunts between (a) and (b) makes (c) to (z) laugh, why? cause they aren't involved, Jokes and taunts are only a line apart, if these two things are named (1), some people may think that if (1) is said among friends, they are jokes. If on strangers, they are taunts, is that really true? Friends started off as strangers.